Why Big Sur is the Perfect Spot for an Intimate Wedding or Elopement
The Allure of Big Sur
Big Sur is pure cinematic gold, where massive redwoods meet the Pacific Ocean in the most dramatic way possible—imagine saying your vows as waves crash against cliffs below or being surrounded by ancient trees that feel straight out of a fairytale. This incredible slice of California stays with you long after you leave, feeling like a dreamscape come to life, with cliffs that evoke awe, forests so enchanting you half expect a Disney princess to appear, and waves crashing against succulent-strewn shores. Perfect for outdoorsy, adventurous couples or anyone seeking a wedding that's anything but basic, Big Sur offers an unforgettable backdrop.
I fell in love with Big Sur during a COVID elopement and fell deeper after reading Big Little Lies and The Unwedding. I was so lucky to go back and film another intimate wedding in the fall of 2022 and get to return spring of 2025, so I’m here to share everything from venues and vendors to unique ideas and practical tips to make your Big Sur wedding truly magical.
Travel Planning Essentials
Closest Airports and Travel Times
Monterey Regional Airport: About an hour away.
San Jose International Airport: 2.5 hours, give or take.
San Francisco International Airport: A solid 3.5-hour drive, but worth every second for that Highway 1 view.
Travel Tips
Heads up: There’s literally one road in and out (Hi, Highway 1!). It’s gorgeous but can be slow with traffic, weather, or random road closures. Always leave earlier than you think you need to.
Permits: You’re gonna need one if you’re using state parks or public spaces. Call up California State Parks to sort it out. I recommend doing this in advance as there are often limits to how many parties they can accommodate on any given day.
Outdoor Considerations
Weather roulette: Big Sur likes to keep you guessing. One minute it’s sunny; the next it’s foggy. Pack layers and roll with it.
Shoes matter: Tell your guests to ditch the heels and go for something practical. Nobody wants a twisted ankle on your big day.
Venue Recommendations
Big Sur Bakery - Rustic vibes, killer food, and cozy charm. Perfect for a cozy, intimate wedding.
Big Sur Lodge - This spot is like a nature-lover’s dream. Think comfy cabins and stunning views. What’s fantastic about big sur lodge is your guests can stay on site.
Loma Vista Gardens - Hello, garden wedding of my dreams! It’s lush, magical, and made for intimate ceremonies.
Wind and Sea - Want ultimate privacy with insane ocean views? This is it.
Point 16 - Panoramic views that will leave everyone speechless. Enough said.
Ancient Redwoods - Getting married surrounded by towering redwoods? It’s like stepping into a forest fairytale.
Garrapata State Park - Cliffs, beaches, and that wild Big Sur vibe. Perfect for couples who like a little adventure.
Andrew Molera State Park - Less crowded than Garrapata State Park, but just as stunning. You’ve got beaches, meadows, and river views to pick from.
Vendors to Work With
Photographer: Takke Photography
Lisa Takke is a California native. Her photos are straight-up magic and if you book both of us, we’ve got discounts because we’re cool like that.
Illustrator & Designer: Catherine Mulligan
Need custom invites or a cute wedding logo? Catherine’s your girl. She’s a genius, skilled artists, and one of the kindest vendors I have worked with.
Catering:
Big Sur Bakery
The ultimate comfort food. Your taste buds will thank you.
Deetjen’s Restaurant
Flavors that are conic, charming, elegant, and oh-so-delicious.
Unique Ideas to Elevate Your Big Sur Wedding
Wedding Morning Hike
Start your day with a hike (yes, really). Not only does it calm your nerves, but it’s a killer photo op. Bring your photo and video team along for those candid, breathtaking moments before you say I do.
Florals
Skip the florist and hit up the Monterey flower market! Making your own bouquets is super fun and a wonderful way to bond with your loved ones.
Day-After Photo Session
Why stop at one day? Take your time exploring Big Sur’s scenic spots for a relaxed post-wedding experience.
Vacation Rentals for Guests
Big Sur has some jaw-dropping vacation rentals. Think cozy cabins, chic estates, and everything in between. If you are keeping it intimate anyways, why not make a whole weekend experience. Your guests will love it.
Conclusion
Keep it casual: Big Sur isn’t necessarily the place for ballgowns and tuxedos. Go for something comfy but chic. Let the beauty of the location speak for itself
Pack smart: Layers are your BFF. Big Sur’s weather likes to switch it up, especially in the evening.
Respect nature: Please please please follow leave-no-trace rules and keep the wildlife safe. Nobody wants to be that couple.
Big Sur is truly one of a kind. From the rugged cliffs to the peaceful redwoods, it’s the perfect mix of wild and romantic. Whether you’re inspired by Big Little Lies like me or just want something totally unique, this place delivers. I hope this guide gives you all the inspo and info you need to plan your Big Sur wedding. Trust me, it’ll be unforgettable.
Wedding Films in Big Sur
FAQs
1. Do I need a permit for a Big Sur wedding?
Yes, especially for public spaces like state parks. Call California State Parks.
2. What are the best months to get married in Big Sur?
Spring and fall are perfect—mild weather, fewer crowds.
3. Can I host a large wedding in Big Sur?
Most venues are best for smaller weddings, so keep it intimate. If you are wanting to include guests think just fam and your bestie.
4. Are there any restrictions for outdoor ceremonies in Big Sur?
Yes, there are restrictions like fire bans and noise limits. Check with your venue or park for specifics.
5. What are the best ways to travel to Big Sur?
Fly into San Francisco or San Jose a day or two before. Then drive down the beautiful Highway 1 and soak up the views. Just remember to give yourself plenty of time in case of delays.
